Mary Ellen

LaRue

Mary Ellen LaRue, born May 28, 1936, passed away peacefully, on October 15th, 2026, surrounded by the love and memories of a life well lived. She was the daughter of John and Mary (Todd) Ropolo. Born Mary Ellen Ropolo in Denver, Colorado, she was raised from an early age by her father and stepmother, Gert Ropolo, in the Mayfair District of Fresno, California.

 Mary met the love of her life, Jerry LaRue, while attending Fresno High School. They were married on November 28, 1953, and shared nearly 69 years of marriage before Jerry's passing in 2022. His memorial service was held on the same date of Mary’s passing four years earlier.

During the first 20 years of their marriage, the family traveled throughout the world while Jerry served in the United States Air Force. As a devoted military wife, Mary raised their three children and took active leadership roles in Air Force wives' organizations and other support groups, building lifelong friendships wherever they lived.

After returning to Fresno in 1974, Mary remained active in her community. She served as President of the Fresno Newcomers Guild, participated in several bridge clubs, and enjoyed many years of square dancing with Jerry.

Mary and Jerry shared a passion for travel. She carefully planned family trips to favorite destinations including Dollywood, Disney World, and Epcot Center, as well as numerous cruises to Europe and Alaska.

Mary's greatest passion was reading. She could easily read three to four books a day. She enjoyed her treasures, most of which were found while travelling or at yard sales, another hobby. She also loved cooking for Jerry and her family. Thanksgiving at Mom and Dad's home became a cherished family tradition, remembered for its warmth, laughter, and wonderful meals.

Mary is survived by her son, Michael (Emily) LaRue of Fresno, California; daughters Judy (Cali) Terrasas of Billings, Missouri, and Lori (Jeff) Springer of Goddard, Kansas; three sisters, Karen of Tracy, Montana, Rosalie Elliott of Phoenix, Arizona, Doreen Damian of Helena, Montana, one brother, Edwin Williams of Walkerville, Montana; seven grandchildren; and eleven great-grandchildren.

She also leaves behind her beloved cat, Tia, who was faithfully by her side for the past 13 years.

The family wishes to acknowledge and thank the wonderful staff and administrators at The Terraces at San Joaquin Gardens for the compassionate care they provided Mary.

A private family service will be held at a future date.